I’ve found a kindred spirit.
I read Amy Gehrt’s column titled “Getting That ‘Healthy Glow’” in the Pekin Daily Times.
Gehrt talks about being pale and the dangers of skin cancer.
I can relate to her. I am extremely pale. I have a lot of red-haired women in my family, although my parents both have dark brown hair. Somehow I inherited the pale, freckled skin of a redhead.
Perhaps this is why fall is my favorite season. It’s a time when I can cover my ghostly-white legs and arms in slacks and sweaters.
I dread summer when I know it will be so hot that I will be forced to wear short sleeved shirts and capris (I have pretty much given up wearing shorts anymore).
In grade school, my classmates called me Casper on the playground, poking fun at my fair skin.
As a teenager, people made comments like, “Put on your sunglasses, Jeanette’s blinding us.”
My defense now is that Nicole Kidman looks fabulous and she is pale.
But, still, I envy those I know whose skin seems to automatically tan during the first few days of summer. My boyfriend often holds his arm next to mine to compare how much darker he is compared to me.
I bought my best friend a tanning package for her birthday, and now her skin is a beautiful golden brown. It isn’t marked with freckles; it appears to be perfect.
The closest I came to a tan is after a vacation in Missouri one year. Of course, I burned first. Then, my skin seemed to turn a tad darker, but I couldn’t tell if that was all of my freckles popping out and overlapping each other. Before I could get any darker, my skin peeled.
I tried a tanning bed in college, but my skin broke out in little red dots all over.
I also tried the messy self-tanning lotions and a spray tan, which wasn’t bad. However, I am not one who wants to pay the money to keep up a fake tan on a monthly basis.
So, even though I think other women with nice, dark tans look nice, I tell myself that pale skin is in too. After all, with all these popular vampire shows out right now, such as “Twilight” and “Tru Blood,” I fit right in.
During the Renaissance, all women wanted pale skin. I’ve read that they even ate small doses of arsenic to make their skin whiter! I also read that being creamy white meant you were an aristocrat and being tan meant you were poor and worked in the fields.